“Building Self-Esteem”

The children are the country’ future. Without the proper training, these people will not be able to follow through the programs that people in the past have done. This is the reason that parents, teachers and friends should all help out build self esteem in a kid.

At home, parents can fulfill that role by showering the kid with love and affection. Good deeds should be acknowledged while mistakes should be corrected in a subtle manner.

Self-esteem is not only done through words of encouragement. This should also happen by teaching the kid how to be independent. Parents may allow the child to either learn a new sport or a musical instrument.
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“Teenager”

The teenage years are probably the most awkward years for your teenagers. When a child reaches this age, he or she faces many new changes and challenges. It was much easier when they were younger because parents have total control over their children but as babies grow up to be teenagers along comes the development of the minds to think on their own.

Teenagers want to try new many things and they are ever more ready to meet challenges head on but what scares most parents are the facts that not all new things are good and that not all challenges are meant to be attacked head on. The parents though are careful to be interfering because at this stage the teenagers want to prove themselves so they think that resisting their parents is cool.
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“Body Language”

Have you ever seen a mother standing at a distance, snapping her fingers and pointing down as she glares unhappily over at her child? If so then you are seeing the magic of body language as the mother barks out commands with a finger/eye signal and facial expression. If you notice the child acting quickly coming to the mother’s front, thus you are seeing a child acknowledge these languages, as he/she reads the signals. This is the concept of making body movements that lead to the maximum success.

If you ever seen a businessman in action, thus you will notice this person will use his hands in angled fashion, gesturing as he speaks. While his eyes and mouth are expressing the mood at the moment, his body is giving effective signals to the listener, which enhances the chances of the communication being understood.

To practice a public speaking process for success you need to grasp speech, language, dialect, as well as body language and its magic. A good speaker will stand out from the rest, since as he talks in a public environment he will use his hands, eyes, mouth, and stance to make it happen. For example, if you are speaking in public you would move slightly to the left and right each time you talk, looking at the audience to the right, to the left and in the middle letting each person in the crowd know t hat his attention is directed to everyone participating.

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“State of Mind”

The distinctive thing about a state of mind such as that just described is that the focal object is much clearer than the marginal objects. For example, when you fixated the letter O, it was only in the vaguest sort of fashion that you were aware of the contact of your clothing or the lurking ideas of other lessons. As we examine these marginal objects further, we find that they are continually seeking to crowd into the centre of attention and to become clear.

You may be helped in forming a vivid picture of conditions if you think of the mind as a stream ever in motion, and as it flows on, the objects in it continually shift their positions. A cross-section of the stream at any moment may show the contents of the mind arranged in a particular pattern, but at the very next moment they may be arranged in a different pattern, another object occupying the focus, while the previous tenant is pushed to the margin. Thus we see that it is a tendency of the mind to be forever changing.

If left to itself, it would be in ceaseless fluctuation, the whim of every passing fancy. This tendency to fluctuate comes with more or less regularity, some psychologists say every second or two. True, we do not always yield to the fluctuating tendency, nevertheless we are recurrently tempted, and we must exercise continuous effort to keep a particular object at the focus.

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“Practice of Recall”

Furthermore,unforeseen distractions may arise. Accordingly, create those conditions as nearly as possible in your preparation. Imagine yourself facing the audience. Practise aloud so that you will become accustomed to the sound of your own voice. The importance of the practice of recall as a part of the memory process can hardly be overestimated. One psychologist has advised that in memorizing significant material more than half the time should be spent in practising recall.

There still remains a fourth phase of memory—Recognition. Whenever a remembered fact is recalled, it is accompanied by a characteristic feeling which we call the feeling of recognition. It has been described as a feeling of familiarity, a glow of warmth, a sense of ownership, a feeling of intimacy. As you walk down the street of a great city you pass hundreds of faces, all of them strange. Suddenly in the crowd you catch sight of some one you know and are instantly suffused with a glow of feeling that is markedly different from your feeling toward the others.

That glow represents the feeling of recognition. It is always present during recall and may be used in great advantage in studying. It derives its virtue for our purpose from the fact that it is a feeling, and at the time of feeling the bodily activities in general are affected. Changes occur in heart beat, breathing; various glandular secretions are affected, the digestive organs respond.

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